Questions, answered plainly.
If something here reads as evasive, tell us and we will fix the answer.
Is this therapy?
No, and it is not a substitute for it. Better Half is a practice space — somewhere to rehearse a conversation before you have it, and to look at what happened after. If you are working with a therapist, this sits alongside that work. If you are in crisis, please contact your local emergency number or a crisis line.
Is it a companion app?
No. It is deliberately not built to be your friend, and it will tell you so. The simulation does not have feelings, does not need you, and is not trying to keep you here. Our goal is that you close it and go have the real conversation.
Can you read my conversations?
See the security page for the specifics rather than a reassuring sentence here. The short version is that this is the most sensitive material in the product and it is architected accordingly.
What AI models does it use?
Frontier models from established providers, chosen for how well they hold a position under pressure rather than how agreeable they are. Conversation text is sent to those providers to generate a response — the security page names them.
How is this different from talking to ChatGPT?
General assistants are tuned to be agreeable. That is pleasant and useless for practice: a conversation that folds the moment you push is not rehearsal for one that won't. Better Half is built to hold its ground, stay in character, and give you something to actually work against.
Who is it for?
People who want to get better at dating, friendship and conflict — and specifically people who process interactions after the fact and want to understand what happened. It was designed with neurodivergent adults in mind, though the skills are not specific to them.
What does it cost?
See the pricing page. There is a pre-sale rate while we are early.
When does the matching feature ship?
We are not going to give you a date we cannot stand behind. The practice space works today; connection is the next layer and is still being built.
What if I am in crisis?
Better Half is not a crisis service and cannot help in an emergency. Contact your local emergency number, or a crisis line in your country. That is the right call every time, and we would rather say so plainly than bury it.
